The party’s over…

Posted On Monday, January 5th, 2009

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Happy 2009!  I’m re-entering normalcy today, back at work for the first of many 5 day weeks.  After 2 weeks of working 2 days and having 5 days off, its going to be rough.  But such is life.

 

The holidays were great, overall.  On Christmas Eve Jack learned how to escape from his exersaucer in such a way that we had to abandon it entirely.  As I did my grocery shopping EARLY that morning at Wal-Mart, I also picked up some baby gates.  We’re actually now using the super-yard Steph loaned us as a gate across the entry between the living and dining rooms, which is working out well.  It was originally done to keep Jack away from the Christmas tree, but now that the tree is down, we like having that room off-limits to him, so the big boys can keep some of their toys untouchable.  The other gate is between the living room and hallway.  He’s also managed to finally kill the entertainment unit, pulling the glass door off the hinge, and rather than replace the hinge we went to plan B:  we got rid of the unit entirely and moved the sideboard into the living room from the dining room.  It’s smaller, so there’s more space, and after a purge, all the movies fit in the drawers, and the tv and components fit on top.  Eventually we’ll replace the tv with a flat screen that we’ll mount on the wall, but for now it works, and Jack can use the side cupboards for toy storage.    

 

Anyway, Christmas!  Christmas Eve started with a very early morning (6:45am) grocery run to the new Wal-Mart (which is really nice.)  Andy and I dropped it all at home at 8:15 then ran back out for a few other quick stops, and were in for good by 11am.  He had to be at church at 3pm for warm-ups before the 4pm family service, and Martin, Alex and Jack joined us an hour later.  The service went well, the kids sang great and enjoyed Chuck’s sermon about their kitten, KitKat, who has been diligently hunting the hidden Baby Jesuses of the Alley’s nativities all over the house.  We could all learn a lot from that cat!

 

We got home and had perogies, as is tradition, and then Mom and Frank came by for the evening rituals:  reindeer food outside, luminarias, and a reading of “Twas the Night Before Christmas”, which Frank read this year.  Alex was anxious to get to bed, but Andy stayed up and went back to church with me at 9:15 for my rehearsal before the 10:30pm Festival Service.  It was gorgeous, but he was one tired kid when we got home a little after midnight.  Martin had prepped all the Santa stuff, so after a shower we got that done, and were in bed by 2am.  They were up at 5am, so it was a short night!

Christmas morning was our usual:  the parents and grandma were with us for open house/food and gifts.  The biggest hit was the Wii from Grandpa and Katie, without a doubt!  I got a new iPod Shuffle for running, and some running clothes from the boys’ shopping trip with Grandpa and Katie, so I was a happy girl!

 

 

Jack had his first hair cut the weekend after Christmas.   I need to upload photos of that, but suffice to say he wasn’t amused!

 

I worked Monday and Tuesday after Christmas (boy, was it quiet!) and then was off for another 5 days.  The Leonards came over for New Year’s Eve, continuing the tradition, and we had a great time.  Martin finally got my bike put together and Andy and I had a brief ride together, but the weather hasn’t been very bike-friendly. 

 

On January 1st I ran in the New Year’s Day 10K which was a fun way to jump-start the year.  On the 2nd I finally succumbed and cleared up the Christmas decorations.  I never make it to Epiphany, I just get so tired of it all!  We still need to put away Grandma’s stuff, but at least its at our house now so it won’t be any trouble to put it upstairs tonight.

 

Andy started basketball at the Y over the weekend. This week was just a practice, but next week is his first game.  Go Wildcats!

 

 

Jack has been grouchy with a cold, and add to that the usual bumps and bangs that accompany figuring out how to walk, and he’s been really miserable.  We haven’t gotten a lot of sleep, but I am hopeful that it will even out again soon!

Happy Christmas Eve Eve!

Posted On Tuesday, December 23rd, 2008

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The busiest part of the longest week is behind us, and tonight is our night off, praise the Lord!

Sunday was the Christmas pageant, which went well.  Alex was…wait for it…a PARROT. Yes, a parrot.  I have no idea what lead to this, since I wasn’t at rehearsal Friday night (Martin took Andy and Alex so I could get a jump start on the baking) but it was a hoot!  Alex and his friend, Braeden, were parrots.  Andy was a shepherd, again.  He’s hoping to graduate to Wise Man or something next year, but we’ll see!

Lessons & Carols went really well that evening, I’ll have to post photos once I get some.  I missed the chance to get one of Jack all dressed up for the service, he was really cute!  The whole thing went smoothly and the church was packed - we ran out of programs, and we’d printed 450!  I looked up after the processional and realized even the balcony was full.  I’ve never seen the church that full, even on Easter morning.  It was amazing! 

Last night was the annual Family Gathering at church and I took Andy and Alex while Martin stayed home with Jack, who was just too grumpy to take anywhere at that hour.  There were crafts for the kids, plus a Fawn Shop where they could shop for gifts with pocket money and then wrap their treasures.  Both boys came out with all sorts of parcels, so we’ll see what they chose.  The kids always love doing that, they’re so proud of themselves as they pick out gifts for their family.  There was also wreath and centerpiece making, and the greening of the church . I was helping out down in the education wing, so I didn’t get to help decorate this year, but it was breathtaking when I went into the sanctuary.  Lots of evergreen garland (smells divine) and white pointsettias, plus in each window there is a candle in a hurricane globe set in magnolia and holly.  Gorgeous! 

Today is my last day in the office for the week.  Tomorrow I’ll grocery shop with all the other nuts (heaven help me!) and try to finish getting the house cleaned up, then Andy is singing in the 4pm family service.  I have to be back by 9:30 for rehersal before the 10:30pm service, which should be wonderful. I can’t wait!

The longest week begins!

Posted On Friday, December 19th, 2008

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So Advent is flying by at an alarming rate.  Things are so stressful at work that its hard to remain focused on what’s real and what matters, and I’m at the point where I’m really beginning to resent it.  I’ve been praying Philippians 4:6-7 for a couple of months now:  Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.  I’ve been trying very hard to let go of the fear and worry and put it in God’s hands, but one of my biggest weaknesses as a Christian is my control-freak and worry-wart tendencies.  I just have trouble letting go.  Its lead to insomnia and a seriously messed-up stomach of late, and 2 weeks ago in church, God decided He’d had enough and He basically mugged me.  Yep, that’s right.  He ripped the worry off my heart. I  don’t have a better way to explain it, and I know I sound flippant about it, but truly I am not.  Chuck’s sermon that day was for me, beyond a shadow of a doubt, and it was overwhelming.  I held it together until communion, and from that point on I was just lost.  I scared some of my choir friends when I couldn’t stop crying, but it was with thankfulness and an overwhelming sense of relief.  God just took it from me.  I’m truly blessed.

For anyone that’s curious, here’s a link to the sermon:  The Season of Hope delivered by The Reverend Chuck Alley on December 7, 2008.  I will warn you that Chuck was working on less than 4 hours of sleep, according to his wife, so its not his usual smooth delivery, but I think its even more endearing for all its human foibles. 

Having said all of that, this is still a depressing place lately, and everyone is so uptight and unhappy.  But I just concentrate on my work, and trying to remain positive, and know that there’s a plan.

I can’t believe Christmas is less than a week away.  Last night began a very busy week for me/us:

Thursday 12/18:  work, then choir rehearsal

Friday 12/19:  work (finished 2009 wage rates, at last!) followed by staff Christmas lunch, then tonight is the kids’ Christmas pageant rehearsal at church.  I’m hoping Martin will take them so I can stay home with Jack and start on my baking.

Saturday 12/20:  Christmas baking for neighbors.  On the list are chocolate chip cookies, oatmeal raisin cookies, fudge, my Aunt Patty’s sugared pecans, buckeyes and something else I haven’t quite decided on yet.  I guess I better get a clue quickly, huh?  Dad is coming around 2pm to take Andy and Alex Christmas shopping (for us…which I keep saying is unecessary, but the boys love doing it and I think Grandpa does as well!)  Andy and I have Lessons & Carols rehearsal from 5:30 to 8:30 tomorrow night, too.

Sunday 12/21:  Christmas pageant during worship, then we have to be back at church for a 5:15 call time.  Lessons & Carols is at 6:30, followed by a reception afterwards.

Monday 12/22:  work, then I am leaving no later than 3pm to get the boys and be at church by 4pm for the annual Family Gathering.  There will be crafts and activities, including a Fawn Shop and greening the church, followed by a potluck supper and caroling.  I’m volunteering in the video room where kids can wait before or after shopping for their parents.

Tuesday 12/23:  work, and our only night off…

Wednesday 12/24:  grocery shopping, followed by Christmas morning kitchen prep.  Andy’s singing in the 4pm Family service then we’ll be home for dinner and all our Christmas Eve traditions.  I have to be back at church by 9:15pm for a quick rehearsal before the 10:30pm Festival service.  I’m really, really excited about this, because I haven’t been to or sung in this service since I had kids.  We’re doing a beautiful anthem, and arrangement of The Midnight Clear, which I just love.  Our church is so pretty in the candlelight on Christmas Eve, I love that service.  I should be home by 12:30am, at which point I will have to wake up Martin to do some Santa work!

Thursday 12/25:  Merry Christmas!  We’re having all the grandparents over for our traditional Christmas morning open house.  Martin made some of the food last weekend and froze it (meatballs, sausage rolls) but there’s still plenty to do on Christmas Eve to get ready.

Friday 12/26: Boxing day - VACATION and recovery!!!

Monday night we took the boys out for a drive after dinner to see the Christmas lights.  As usual, they got in their jammies and we ran through the drive-thru at Krispy Kreme for donuts (dessert) for the ride.  We were out about an hour or so and saw a few truly shocking houses, but it was fun!

The boys are very excited about Christmas, and its fun to watch. Jack has no idea what its all about, of course, but he’s fascinated by the Christmas tree.  He’s figured out how to escape from his exersaucer, which is a bit scary, but overall he’s having fun watching the decorations.

Thanksgiving & Andy’s 8th birthday

Posted On Tuesday, December 2nd, 2008

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(Photos to come later!)

I had a great (and busy) 5 days off over Thanksgiving.  Going back to work yesterday was hard.  It always is after an extended period off, but it was harder than usual.  Things are so tense here, as we all wait with baited breath to find out who is going to be laid off and who is going to escape this round of cuts (and I do mean that those lucky ones are only escaping this round…that’s been made clear to us all.) 

I took last Wednesday off to get ready for Thanksgiving because I needed to clean the house, and get groceries, and pick up a few last minute things for Andy’s birthday on Friday.  Jack has gotten into a weird sleeping rhythm in the last week or so, where he’ll wake up between 2 and 3am and be UP.  There’s no getting him back to sleep, so we have to get him up, give him a bottle and let him play, before he’ll eventually go back down around 5 or 6am for what can only be described as a nap.  I don’t know what’s brought it on, and we’ve tried to not get him up, to avoid it becoming a habit, but there’s only so long I can let him sit in his crib fussing.  So Wednesday morning he was up at 2:30 and I got up with him.  He played and we watched a Kipper dvd, and I folded some laundry and washed bottles, until he showed signs of weariness around 5:30. 

I got back in bed when I put Jack back down, but then Alex woke up half an hour later, and I kept thinking of all the things I needed to get done, so I gave up and got up for good around 6:15.  I left the house around 6:45, and grabbed a bagel and Diet Coke at Einstein’s for sustenance, and was at Ukrop’s shortly after they opened at 7am.  I needed a few things there, but planned to do my largest bit of grocery shopping at Kroger.  From there I went to Target, since they opened at 8am, and I stocked up on diapers, bought clothes for our Angel Tree child, picked up a game for Andy’s birthday, and other assorted stuff that mysteriously ended up running me way more than I’d planned, but was all necessary.  As I left Target I called Martin to check in, and then headed to Kroger to knock out the rest of my grocery list. I was home by 10:30, and we got everything unloaded and put away, and Martin went to get the turkey out of the refrigerator in the garage where it had been thawing.  Or rather, where it was supposed to have been thawing.  It was still hard as a rock!  Martin began to panic, since he’d been planning on putting it in to brine at noon, so we started looking for solutions.  A quick trip to Home Depot later, I had a 5 gallon contractor’s bucket, which we put in the sink, filled with cold water.  We left the turkey in there, submerged in the cold water, with just a small trickle running into the bucket from the faucet.  By 8pm it was thawed and we had it in the brine by 9pm.  Whew!  The rest of the afternoon was spent cleaning, and prepping all of dishes for the next day, except for the potatoes and sweet potatoes.  Not bad!

Thanksgiving morning began with another early call from Jack, but since we’d been asleep by 9:30 the night before it wasn’t so bad.  Martin got the turkey in the oven by 7:30, I think, and then at 8:40 the power went out.  There was a huge “POW!” from outside, and we knew it had been a transformer.  Crap!  I called it into Dominion Power, and we waited.  I was supposed to be at church for a 10am service, and my hair was still wet!  It eventually dried and I decided to go to church anyway, even though I looked like a drowned rat, and I’m glad I did.  It was a small service, but it was beautiful, and Chuck preached a great homily that really spoke to me.  By the time I got home at 11:15 the power was back on and the turkey was continuing to cook. Gotta love carry-over heat!  Mom, Frank and Grandma arrived around 1:30 and we ate around 2:15 or so.  Everything was delicious!

After dinner we celebrated Andy and Grandma’s shared birthday (which was Friday the 28th) with some presents, then Mom and Frank took the boys for a bike ride while I cleaned up the kitchen, then we had dessert when they got back.  It was a really nice, quiet afternoon.

Friday morning I actually did the unthinkable (for me!):  I went to Target at 6am when they opened.  I detest Black Friday, I don’t like crowds and the brash commercialism of it all.  But on Wednesday when I’d been there I mulled over a ride-on toy for Jack (the Little People Fire Truck) since both of the bigger boys had loved having something like that to walk behind and ride on at his age.  Thursday evening I’d been looking at the Target Black Friday circular from the paper, and they had it for just $10 – that’s $20 off!  They also had The Lion, the Witch & the Wardrobe for $5.98, which I wanted to get for the kids.  So I decided to risk it…  After putting Jack back to bed after yet another early wake up, I told Martin I was sneaking out, and I was there at 6:05 and out in only 9 minutes!  I got the truck (which will be Jack’s Santa gift), the CS Lewis DVD for Andy, plus Madagascar for Alex.  I then stopped at Krispy Kreme for hot donuts, knowing the big boys would be awake by the time I got home, and I needed to throw them off the trail of my shopping. It worked, Andy thought they were a birthday breakfast surprise, and was none the wiser!

Andy’s birthday wish was to spend the day decorating for Christmas, so we did that after breakfast and presents.  We actually had the tree up and decorated by 10am, if you can believe that.  Poor Martin spent much of the day trying to get the outside lights to work before giving up in frustration, which disappointed the boys, but I don’t blame him.  We bought icicle lights last year which looked really pretty, and they were all working when Martin took them down, but none were working Friday, and after hours of testing light bulbs and trying to get them to work, he gave up.  Very, very frustrating!

I can’t believe Andy is EIGHT!  How on earth did that happen??  He got some fun presents…the Lego Advent calendar that has become a tradition, a set of walkie talkies from Aunt Regan and Uncle Dan, Wall-E and a magazine subscription from his cousins in Blacksburg, Roller Coaster Tycoon 3 and a Lego container mover (like a forklift) to put together.  The biggest hit was an iPod Shuffle from us, which I’d pre-loaded with music for him.  He’s been bopping around singing for days now!  He also has $75 in gift cards to Barnes & Noble that are burning a hole in his wallet, but he’s agreed to hold off spending them until after Christmas.

On Saturday I made Andy’s birthday cake – a basketball.  I ended up baking the cake in a large Pyrex mixing bowl, to give it the right shape, and then piped the orange butter cream on to give it the same dimpled effect of a real basketball.  Otherwise, it was a pretty lazy day. 

Sunday was insanely busy.  Andy’s choir sang two anthems for the first Sunday of Advent, and in one of them Andy had a solo.  So we had to be at church by 9:20 for his rehearsal.  They all did a great job, and we rushed out of church to get home in time to grab some lunch and change clothes before having to be in Ashland for his birthday party at 2pm – roller skating!  The traffic was horrible, I-95 North was a parking lot, and it took forever to get up there (the rain didn’t help at all…) but everyone made it safely, and the kids had a blast! 

So that was the big holiday-birthday weekend. Life is settling back down a little now, and the boys are eagerly opening up their Advent calendars each morning (Andy has his Lego one, and Alex is opening the doors on the wooden Noah’s
Ark one that Jack got for his birthday from Aunt Regan and Uncle Dan.)  Alex still thinks Santa is coming in 3 days (3 days or 3 minutes is his time period for everything!) so we’re working on trying to use the calendars to explain time a little better.  He’s just so excited!  This Saturday afternoon both of the bigger boys will go to church for 3 hours for a Christmas party where they’ll do crafts and have stories and even a pizza dinner, to give parents a few hours to shop or whatever.  We’re done shopping, so we’ll use that time to wrap and re-stash presents…then I’ve got choir rehearsal for Lessons & Carols, as I will each Saturday until the service on the 21st

Web Searching – and getting Free Giftcards to boot!

Posted On Tuesday, November 18th, 2008

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A friend turned me onto swagbucks recently and I just earned my first gift card after using it for about a week.  I am a big fan of Google, and turn to it more times a day than I can count, but I decided to try and change my ways and see if I could actually earn something by doing so, and darned if it isn’t working.

Swagbucks is a search engine that gives you points for each search you do, and then you can redeem points for gift cards to places you already shop (Starbucks, Amazon, etc.)  I have been randomly doing double searches, both through swagbucks and through Google to see if I’m getting the same results, and I am, so it’s been worth it to try and change my habits and go to swagbucks to search.

Try it out, and start getting rewarded for your searches!

Jack is ONE!

Posted On Sunday, November 9th, 2008

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We had a great little birthday party today with Jack.  He was a little overwhelmed by the bigger boys (including Matthew) who wanted to help teach him how to open presents, but otherwise he was great.  He LOVED the homemade butter cream on his cake, and did quite a bit of damage to it!  He was in a great mood, which was a relief after cutting all FOUR molars this week.

Here’s Jack a year ago:

And here’s the big boy today!

 

The End of My Baby Days

Posted On Saturday, November 8th, 2008

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I always tend to relive my boys’ births as their birthdays come around, but I don’t think I’ve ever done so as vividly and as emotionally as I have as Jack’s 1st birthday draws near. 

I think the reason for that is actually a combination of factors.  I’m acutely aware that my last baby is leaving babyhood behind at an alarming rate, and I’m sad about that.  I’m not sad that Jack is growing up, necessarily, because he’s so much fun to watch as he discovers new stuff.  I think it’s more that I know he’s the last.  As he turns this significant corner in his life, I turn one in my own.  My infant days are gone, never to return. 

Jack’s birth was also the most exciting of the three.  I finally had the “honey, its time” moment, I finally had a child choose his time to enter the world, at least to some extent.  With Andy I was induced for medical reasons, and that lead to a c-section.  With Alex, I just had a scheduled c-section.  We had a delivery scheduled for Jack, for Monday, November 11th, but Jack decided he wasn’t going to wait that long, and came a few days earlier. 

So I’ve spent all day reliving what was going on a year ago, as I went into labor…  Luckily, I wrote about it not long after his birth, so it was fun to go back and read it again.

Halloween wrap-up

Posted On Monday, November 3rd, 2008

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October’s gone, November is here, and the election is tomorrow.  It’s been a busy few weeks!

 

Halloween was a blast!  Andy was Harry Potter this year and he got lots of comments from folks about his costume.  Alex went as a dragon, which sort of fit with the whole Harry Potter theme.  Jack was, briefly, Roo from Winnie the Pooh.  He didn’t make it for Trick or Treating though, it was just too late for him.  We visited Great Grandma for a little while before meeting up with the Leonards for our annual T or T’ing around our neighborhood.  Matthew looked great as Zoro!  At one point in the evening he asked to take off his mask because he was hot and tired of wearing it.  Alex watched as it came off and then exclaimed, “I knew it!  I knew it!  You’re not a bad man!”  It was a riot…

 

Alex had his last regularly scheduled soccer game Saturday morning, and Regan, Dan and Luke came.  We have make-up games scheduled for the next 2 Saturdays, weather permitting.  The kids got their trophies this week, though, and Alex was so proud!  Luke is studying photography and is going to take pictures of the kids next weekend – we get to use them for Christmas gifts and cards, and he gets to use them for his portfolio and any assignments he’s got, so it’s a win-win.  Now if only the kids will cooperate!!

 

The rest of the weekend was a blur.  Yesterday was the 60th anniversary of our church, which coincided with All Saints Day, so there was a lot going on.  I sang in a small ensemble that did 2 anthems during the service (plus sang with the regular choir.)  After church we had rehearsal from 2-5pm, then were due back at 6:00pm for an evening Hymn Festival.  It went really well, and I did a reading and read a prayer in addition to singing.  Everyone seemed to have a good time, and there was plenty of fellowship afterwards with a dessert reception.  Next up: Lessons & Carols!

 

Tomorrow is the election, and I’m literally ill with worry over it.  I’m not sleeping well, and am generally just stressed about it all. 

 

I’ve got to finalize my plans for Jack’s birthday party this week, since its next Sunday afternoon!  I have the general idea of what I’m doing (Baby Einstein), but need to decide which shape cake to bake for him to destroy, and which icing to make (probably butter cream), plus I haven’t decided whether to do cupcakes for the guests (just the grandparents) or a full cake.  I’ve got to do all of that Friday night and Saturday, since I won’t have time to do much but change clothes and eat lunch after church on his actual birthday.  I can’t believe my baby is turning 1! 

THIS is why I’m not sleeping at night!!

Posted On Thursday, October 23rd, 2008

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This is a brilliant editorial by Orson Scott Card…it’s why I’m so angry these days, so scared for our country, that I’m not sleeping.

WorldWatch
First appeared in print in The Rhinoceros Times, Greensboro, NC

By Orson Scott Card

October 5, 2008

Would the Last Honest Reporter Please Turn On the Lights?

An open letter to the local daily paper — almost every local daily paper in America:

I remember reading All the President’s Men and thinking: That’s journalism. You do what it takes to get the truth and you lay it before the public, because the public has a right to know.

This housing crisis didn’t come out of nowhere. It was not a vague emanation of the evil Bush administration.

It was a direct result of the political decision, back in the late 1990s, to loosen the rules of lending so that home loans would be more accessible to poor people. Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac were authorized to approve risky loans.

What is a risky loan? It’s a loan that the recipient is likely not to be able to repay.

The goal of this rule change was to help the poor — which especially would help members of minority groups. But how does it help these people to give them a loan that they can’t repay? They get into a house, yes, but when they can’t make the payments, they lose the house — along with their credit rating.

They end up worse off than before.

This was completely foreseeable and in fact many people did foresee it. One political party, in Congress and in the executive branch, tried repeatedly to tighten up the rules. The other party blocked every such attempt and tried to loosen them.

Furthermore, Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae were making political contributions to the very members of Congress who were allowing them to make irresponsible loans. (Though why quasi-federal agencies were allowed to do so baffles me. It’s as if the Pentagon were allowed to contribute to the political campaigns of Congressmen who support increasing their budget.)

Isn’t there a story here? Doesn’t journalism require that you who produce our daily paper tell the truth about who brought us to a position where the only way to keep confidence in our economy was a $700 billion bailout? Aren’t you supposed to follow the money and see which politicians were benefitting personally from the deregulation of mortgage lending?

I have no doubt that if these facts had pointed to the Republican Party or to John McCain as the guilty parties, you would be treating it as a vast scandal. “Housing-gate,” no doubt. Or “Fannie-gate.”

Instead, it was Senator Christopher Dodd and Congressman Barney Frank, both Democrats, who denied that there were any problems, who refused Bush administration requests to set up a regulatory agency to watch over Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, and who were still pushing for these agencies to go even further in promoting subprime mortgage loans almost up to the minute they failed.

As Thomas Sowell points out in a TownHall.com essay entitled Do Facts Matter? “Alan Greenspan warned them four years ago. So did the Chairman of the Council of Economic Advisers to the President. So did Bush’s Secretary of the Treasury.”

These are facts. This financial crisis was completely preventable. The party that blocked any attempt to prevent it was … the Democratic Party. The party that tried to prevent it was … the Republican Party.

Yet when Nancy Pelosi accused the Bush administration and Republican deregulation of causing the crisis, you in the press did not hold her to account for her lie. Instead, you criticized Republicans who took offense at this lie and refused to vote for the bailout!

What? It’s not the liar, but the victims of the lie who are to blame?

Now let’s follow the money … right to the presidential candidate who is the number-two recipient of campaign contributions from Fannie Mae.

And after Freddie Raines, the CEO of Fannie Mae who made $90 million while running it into the ground, was fired for his incompetence, one presidential candidate’s campaign actually consulted him for advice on housing.

If that presidential candidate had been John McCain, you would have called it a major scandal and we would be getting stories in your paper every day about how incompetent and corrupt he was.

But instead, that candidate was Barack Obama, and so you have buried this story, and when the McCain campaign dared to call Raines an “adviser” to the Obama campaign — because that campaign had sought his advice — you actually let Obama’s people get away with accusing McCain of lying, merely because Raines wasn’t listed as an official adviser to the Obama campaign.

You would never tolerate such weasely nit-picking from a Republican.

If you who produce our local daily paper actually had any principles, you would be pounding this story, because the prosperity of all Americans was put at risk by the foolish, short-sighted, politically selfish, and possibly corrupt actions of leading Democrats, including Obama.

If you who produce our local daily paper had any personal honor, you would find it unbearable to let the American people believe that somehow Republicans were to blame for this crisis.

There are precedents. Even though President Bush and his administration never said that Iraq sponsored or was linked to 9/11, you could not stand the fact that Americans had that misapprehension — so you pounded us with the fact that there was no such link. (Along the way, you created the false impression that Bush had lied to them and said that there was a connection.)

If you had any principles, then surely right now, when the American people are set to blame President Bush and John McCain for a crisis they tried to prevent, and are actually shifting to approve of Barack Obama because of a crisis he helped cause, you would be laboring at least as hard to correct that false impression.

Your job, as journalists, is to tell the truth. That’s what you claim you do, when you accept people’s money to buy or subscribe to your paper.

But right now, you are consenting to or actively promoting a big fat lie — that the housing crisis should somehow be blamed on Bush, McCain, and the Republicans. You have trained the American people to blame everything bad — even bad weather — on Bush, and they are responding as you have taught them to.

If you had any personal honor, each reporter and editor would be insisting on telling the truth — even if it hurts the election chances of your favorite candidate.

Because that’s what honorable people do. Honest people tell the truth even when they don’t like the probable consequences. That’s what honesty means. That’s how trust is earned.

Barack Obama is just another politician, and not a very wise one. He has revealed his ignorance and naivete time after time — and you have swept it under the rug, treated it as nothing.

Meanwhile, you have participated in the borking of Sarah Palin, reporting savage attacks on her for the pregnancy of her unmarried daughter — while you ignored the story of John Edwards’s own adultery for many months.

So I ask you now: Do you have any standards at all? Do you even know what honesty means?

Is getting people to vote for Barack Obama so important that you will throw away everything that journalism is supposed to stand for?

You might want to remember the way the National Organization of Women threw away their integrity by supporting Bill Clinton despite his well-known pattern of sexual exploitation of powerless women. Who listens to NOW anymore? We know they stand for nothing; they have no principles.

That’s where you are right now.

It’s not too late. You know that if the situation were reversed, and the truth would damage McCain and help Obama, you would be moving heaven and earth to get the true story out there.

If you want to redeem your honor, you will swallow hard and make a list of all the stories you would print if it were McCain who had been getting money from Fannie Mae, McCain whose campaign had consulted with its discredited former CEO, McCain who had voted against tightening its lending practices.

Then you will print them, even though every one of those true stories will point the finger of blame at the reckless Democratic Party, which put our nation’s prosperity at risk so they could feel good about helping the poor, and lay a fair share of the blame at Obama’s door.

You will also tell the truth about John McCain: that he tried, as a Senator, to do what it took to prevent this crisis. You will tell the truth about President Bush: that his administration tried more than once to get Congress to regulate lending in a responsible way.

This was a Congress-caused crisis, beginning during the Clinton administration, with Democrats leading the way into the crisis and blocking every effort to get out of it in a timely fashion.

If you at our local daily newspaper continue to let Americans believe –and vote as if — President Bush and the Republicans caused the crisis, then you are joining in that lie.

If you do not tell the truth about the Democrats — including Barack Obama — and do so with the same energy you would use if the miscreants were Republicans — then you are not journalists by any standard.

You’re just the public relations machine of the Democratic Party, and it’s time you were all fired and real journalists brought in, so that we can actually have a daily newspaper in our city.

http://www.ornery.org/essays/warwatch/2008-10-05-1.html

October Wedding

Posted On Monday, October 20th, 2008

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I haven’t yet had time to write about my Uncle Larry’s wedding, weekend before last.  It was a perfect day!

My Dad is the oldest of 4 sons; Larry is #3 and probably the closest to Dad.  They’re a lot alike, really.  Larry was married briefly in the early 70’s, because I can remember his wife taking me to her office Christmas party, which was at a bank and Santa was there, but I was probably only about 4 at the time.  He’s been divorced for at least 30 years, and so he’s been a bachelor for a long, long time.  I am not sure exactly when he and Kim started dating, but we first met her a few years ago and loved her instantly.  She’s been married before and has 2 children, both grown – the youngest (a daughter) is in her 2nd year at William & Mary, and her older son is in his mid-20’s.  Larry never had children, though he’s always been really wonderful to my boys, and they’re even crazier about him now that they’ve fallen in love with their Aunt Kim!

It’s been a lot of fun watching Larry over the last year or two, he’s just been so HAPPY!  They’re an adorable couple, and so we were thrilled when they announced they were getting married.  Dad offered to host the wedding at Nordley, and it was just the perfect day.  The October weather was perfect – it was warm, and sunny, and gorgeous.  We had a big tent and tables on the front lawn, and they got married beyond that, with the river on one side, and all their friends and family on the other.  Andy and Alex were ring bearers, and Kim’s children stood with her and Larry.  There was a great party afterwards, which went on well into the night, I hear.  We left after fireworks around 8:30 or 9:00, but they apparently kept going out in the boathouse until well past midnight.   Kim’s family is very tight-knit, and were a pleasure to meet and get to know.  The various cousins were all older than my boys but still wanted to play football and run around with them, it was fun to watch.

We were blessed to be a part of this special day and so glad to have Kim in the family!

The boys all dressed up before the wedding:

Here comes the bride:

The boys delivering the rings:

Sealing the covenant:

Sealed with a kiss!

3 Watson Boys (Larry, my Dad Frank, and Stuart)

The whole family (her and his):

Us with my Mom, her husband and my grandmother (yes, they were at the wedding of my Dad’s brother…they’ve been divorced since 1975!):

Me with Dad and Katie:

I love this shot of Dad and Katie!

The view from the house:

Afterwards there was a lot of playing around:

The happy couple…and the cake!

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